What we have learned so far:
- The whole lesbian thing is a MAJOR barrier to adoption, especially international adoption. Turns out pretty much all of the poorer, third world countries that do a lot of adopting out hate the gays. Looks like domestic adoption will be the way to go, and even with that a lot of the church run organizations hate the gays as well.
- When you are a married, financially stable couple where one person is a social worker/therapist with an extensive background with MI people, and the other person is a teacher/nurse-to-be with an extensive background with CI people, the foster care worker will return you calls and emails with lightning speed.